Can You Absolutely Know That It's True? An Unlikely Insight for Businesses from the Self-help Section

My wife is a wonderful but crazy woman who takes great interest in the modern spiritual gurus that appear on Oprah and whose books top the iTunes non-fiction list. Her attention has moved over the years from what I consider to be flimsy self-help one-size-fits-all nonsense to some thoughtful, insightful, challenging people.

One of these is an American woman called Byron Katie. This woman regularly counsels people who describe situations that are causing them some degree of personal pain. She responds to pretty much every person’s description with two opening questions: “Is that true?” and “Can you absolutely know that it's true?” - the second question being a polite equivalent of “Come on, be honest with yourself.”

The results of this simple line of questioning are frightening and fascinating. Almost immediately, when pushed to be honest with the second question, Ms Katie’s interlocutors realise they’ve been working with some very dodgy assumptions. These assumptions have been convenient, but have given them a misguided take on the situation and have resulted in some pretty damaging actions.

The consequent realisations of where they've been treating someone unfairly, punishing themselves, etc. often cause an outpouring of emotion that I find a bit much to bear, but my wife seems to like.

Now, let me get to my point, because it's not about relationship self-help.
As managers and professionals, we constantly work with a series of assumptions that a simple challenge such as "is this true" causes doubt, and a follow up such as "can you really know it's true?", causes the whole false edifice to come crashing to the ground and reveal something very different. I've seen whole sales forces pitching "we're not the cheapest, but we're valued advisors" in price-sensitive markets where they were, in fact, the cheapest. I've seen shifts away from highly profitable services to loss-making ones based on superficial untested assumptions and use of the wrong measures. I know a CEO who absolutely insists that his holiday company services the over-45s, and spends his marketing money accordingly, when his average customer age is 71.

Now I'm not saying that Byron Katie's formula is original. I think Socrates beat her to it by a couple of millennia. And I'm not saying you should apply it to your personal life unless you want to be known as the annoying guy. Ms Katie is currently on her third husband; and Socrates was so annoying that he was accused of corrupting the minds of the youth of Athens and forced to drink hemlock.

But I do say try the challenge on your own business or service or product. Challenge your own assumptions - work out what it is that really makes customers prefer you, or what really makes your product superior, or how much return you really make on that sponsorship or other favourite area of marketing spend. I'll bet you find something important that you didn't know, and I'll bet it affects your wallet.

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